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Bernadette Doto, 93, a beloved daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on February 21, 2026, in Chesterfield, Michigan. She was born on April 29, 1932 in Detroit, Michigan, and was a long-time resident of St. Clair Shores, and later, Macomb Township, Michigan.
Bernadette dedicated 25 years to working for Michigan Bell/AT&T, where she became known for her sweet voice and easy smile. Her warmth and congenial spirit left an indelible mark on her colleagues and friends alike. Outside of her professional life, Bernadette generously contributed to several children's charities over the years, but her favorite in recent years was the Wounded Warriors Project, reflecting her patriotism and her compassionate nature to those in need.
In her personal life, Bernadette was cherished for her love of family and her engaging spirit. Bernie and her husband were involved in many church activities throughout their 51 year marriage. She also enjoyed many hobbies; jigsaw puzzles, reading, and creating scrapbooks. She was also a crossword puzzle whiz! She also loved the sounds of big band era music. An avid birdhouse and model bird enthusiast, she delighted in the beauty of nature.
Bernadette is survived by her loving children, Kathleen Gilliam, Joseph Doto, David Doto, Susan Armento, and Tim Doto. She was a proud grandmother to nine grandchildren and a great-grandmother to six great-grandchildren, all of whom will remember her with fondness and affection. She also leaves behind her brother, Ronald Urban, and sister, Debbie Ollie.
She joins in eternal rest her late husband, Joseph Doto, as well as her deceased siblings, Larry Urban, Joseph Urban, Kenneth Urban, and her son, Michael Doto.
A Memorial Service to celebrate Bernadette's life will be held on April 24, 2026, at Christian Memorial Gardens West, located at 521 E Hamlin Rd, Rochester Hills, MI. The service will begin at 11:00 AM.
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